Friday, January 15, 2010

I am no doormat

For some reason, people assume that because I'm submissive, that must mean I'm a pushover or that I enjoy being taken advantage of. I can see why people would assume this, but it's far from the truth in nearly every instance. I've not met a single submissive yet that likes to be treated that way by someone other than their Dom/me.

Let me state this clearly (though I doubt readers of this blog need to hear it): I am a submissive, but I am not YOUR submissive. You cannot tell me what to do and expect me to listen. You don't get to speak degradingly to me. I choose to submit to Master because he has earned it and you haven't.

I guess I'm just tired of people treating me like I'm less than a person because I choose to submit to Master. It's almost as if they feel I'm not worthy of their presence. And these people have the gall to call me "friend." I think it's time to purge these people from my life, especially if they continue to treat me this way. I deserve so much more.


  1. This is something that a lot of people don't understand... You are submissive to the one person that you chose to be submissive to. No one else has the right, or the ability to take that place, or make you do anything you don't want to.

    This is what you are happy with.

    That's all that really matters...


  2. You are so right, but vanilla folk do not understand, so they act out of ignorance.
    As a submissive myself, I heartily agree with you and even a dominant must realise their are limits for anything. We are still human beings and deserve to be treated that way and any person who claims to be a friend needs to treat you like a friend.