I am no doormat

For some reason, people assume that because I'm submissive, that must mean I'm a pushover or that I enjoy being taken advantage of. I can see why people would assume this, but it's far from the truth in nearly every instance. I've not met a single submissive yet that likes to be treated that way by someone other than their Dom/me.

Let me state this clearly (though I doubt readers of this blog need to hear it): I am a submissive, but I am not YOUR submissive. You cannot tell me what to do and expect me to listen. You don't get to speak degradingly to me. I choose to submit to Master because he has earned it and you haven't.

I guess I'm just tired of people treating me like I'm less than a person because I choose to submit to Master. It's almost as if they feel I'm not worthy of their presence. And these people have the gall to call me "friend." I think it's time to purge these people from my life, especially if they continue to treat me this way. I deserve so much more.